Elizabeth Skylar Podcast Interview: MILF on the Rise

Well, I kind of branded myself a MILF in the beginning because I in real life, I am a mom. So there’s a lot of trophy wife content. And what you see is what you get — I’m a very blunt out there person.

So I’m very type A personality. I have pretty much my dad’s personality. He’s from New York. He’s very out there. So I’m the same way. I’m a Leo — I wear my feelings and my heart on my sleeve. So I will tell you how I am feeling and how everything is going. I’m like one of those people. I can’t hold anything back. That’s just not me. So when I meet people, I mean, I’m not like rude. I’m not like, oh, my God, but like, I’m just very, like, you know, this is who I am.

In personal relationships, I tell people way too much information. And then I look back on it, and I’m like, Oh, God, I shouldn’t have said that. Like I said, like, not being rude to them. But just I pour out my entire diary to people. I’m just like, This is me this, you know, blah, blah, blah, ABC.

I tell everyone I’ve got pig skin implanted in my boobs. [ . . . ]

So I’ve had two breast augmentations. My second one was basically a big fixing the first one. And my implants were basically slipping out of their pockets, my first breast augmentation. They were way down low, after I breastfed — they were a mess. So I had a new doctor go in– shout out to Dr. Jay in Beverly Hills. He’s amazing. And he put in stratus, which is pig skin underneath. And it’s basically like an internal bra that kind of keeps everything from going down south. [Laughs] So I tell everybody and they’re like what the hell.

I was born raised and still live in LA County. I never left and a lot of people are like, wow, like that’s so rare. And I never left because I had kids early, and I didn’t want to move away from my parents and deprive them of their grandchildren. So I’ve always stayed here. And trust me, I’ve wanted to move many times because this state is very expensive. And it’s just too much, but I can’t leave.

But I was a stay at home mom up until 2020. And then I started this whole adult industry thing. So I started off as a cam girl on Chaturbate in 2020. And it was because I had a lot of downtime, a lot of free time with the pandemic. Everything was closed The gyms were closed, I’m like, Okay, what do I do now? So I cammed, and then camming led to me doing collabs with other people on Chaturbate. And then collabs led to me starting my OnlyFans. And then OnlyFans led to me doing pro stuff, pro shoots for the industry. And that was purely reaching out to people on Twitter, thinking I would never hear back from them. But I’m like, you know, I have nothing to lose. And I put it out there and someone took a chance on me.

Yes, so he had a friend that was really into it. And he was like telling my husband, he’s like, you know, you got to go on here. You got to see some of these chicks. And then some of my husband was looking at it. And he was like, well, are you interested in doing something like this? Because I think you would have a lot of fun doing it. And I’m like, yeah, sure, why not. And I did, I had a lot of fun. And but I stopped doing it around 2021. I started completely dedicated my whole life to OnlyFans became my bread and butter, pretty much.

[At first] I thought, oh, this will be fun. You know, I’ll have a good time. Whatever happens happens. And it was just kind of the chain of events that was kind of meant to be. I reached out to [cam stars] Jack and Jill, who are huge on Chaturbate. And I reached out to them in July of 2021. And I was like I would love to do shoot with you. I thought I would never hear back. They ended up reaching out to me. They said we would love to have you on our channel or show or however you say it. And then I started doing that. And I started having sex on camera. And I tell people my first ever threesome was on camera. That was on camera. Like I’ve never done that before, behind closed doors. So that was crazy.

I love to have threesomes off camera. And I thought about it often, but just the opportunity never came along. So when this happened, I was like, Okay, I want to do it. But at the same time, I was so nervous. I tell people if you look at my first ever video with them, like my hand was shaking because I was like, oh my god, what am I doing? But I ended up having so much fun. And Jack and Jill are amazing people.

I thought their shows flowed well and were very organic, and they made people feel comfortable. And then of course, I’m not going to lie, I saw Jack. And he’s obviously, he’s very gifted, put it that way. And so I was like, Ooh! But they I just everything on their show is very organic, which I love. And you have so much fun with them. You forget the time and by the time you’re done, six hours has gone by or whatever. They’re amazing. So very organized. And Jack is very good with all the technical stuff. He’s got cameras on the ceiling, cameras here, there. And he just pushes the button and everything changes and makes it better for the viewer. And it’s amazing. [ . . . ]

Everything just flows! [ . . . ] [In the threesome] so I wanted to make sure that I, you know, looked a certain way on camera, and I wasn’t like giving one person attention and not the other person attention. And I wanted to make sure that the viewers could see what I was doing. And also, in essence, this was the first time I ever did this. So I was like, Oh, my God.

So it’s funny, he first started out, he was like, Okay, I’m going to let you do this. And it’s only going to be with Jack and Jill. I don’t want you having sex with anybody else on camera. This is what I’m currently comfortable with. And I’m like, okay, cool. Then he saw that there wasn’t any emotions in it. And it was just sex. And it was just a good time. I wasn’t going to move in with the guy and start a relationship. And so then he let me have sex with another guy on camera and ended up being a foursome. It was Jack, Jill, myself and Quinton James. So that was a big foursome. And we actually broke the internet on that one, literally. And then he was like, okay, that went well. And then he just took some baby steps, just kept going then. And I’ve proved to him and he’s trusted me over the months in the years that I’ve been doing this, that I’m not going to have any emotions outside of it. And it’s just business, pretty much.

Man behind the curtain, very Wizard of Oz. He actually made his first ever appearance on Chaturbate with Blonde and Silver Fox and I, in July of this year, and he had a great time, but he did not get nude. We just kind of played around with him and had fun with them. But when it came to the sex, he he split. So he’s shy.

So Jack and Jill were having internet problems. And there were so many people in the room, that it literally broke it like it like it, just everything shut down. We were like “shit,” so Quinton James was like, Hey, I got a shoot house down the road. Let’s go over there. I’m sure we’ll have better luck with the Internet. We go over there. And again, everything was just organic and flowed. And it was a little overwhelming, because I’ve got two here. And then I’ve got to also be with Jill and all that kind of stuff. And towards the end, you can kind of see like, my head was spinning a little bit. I was like, Oh my God, but it ended up all working out great. But that night, I literally had to drive home. And so I did not get home until like two o’clock in the morning. So that was a long day. I was hallucinating by the end of the day. 

Just super long time in front of the camera. But again, they make it so that it doesn’t feel like it’s a long time in front of the camera and then Quinton James is also a riot to be with. So we had a lot of fun with him. He’s got a great personality, very outgoing, very funny. So I took a foreskin shot out of him, because I had heard about that from another show. So I was like, I have to do it. Can I do it? He’s like, Sure. So poor Jack and Jill are fumbling with the internet and I’m sitting there taking foreskin shots. But it was a lot of fun.

[A foreskin show is when ] you pull the foreskin forward and then you literally pour a shot into his “cup” and then you kind of slurp it out.

I would love to squirt more. I do squirt. But not to the extent that I’ve seen other people squirt. I also did an F/F/F/M with Jack and Jill. So it was Jack and Jill and I and Braylin Bailey, super cute girl love her, super sweet, but she can squirt like a sprinkler. And I was like, damn, I wish I could do that. Maybe one day.

Yeah, so she’s like, you’ve got to stay extremely hydrated. So the times that I have squirted, it’s only been with an electrolyte kind of drink. And I drink like a ton of it. And that’s the only time that’s ever happened.

So I started out as a teenager watching a lot of like celebrity sex tapes, because that was the big thing back then. Paris Hilton, Kim Kardashian, Tommy Lee and Pamela Anderson. That was huge. And then I would watch other people. I would watch Howard Stern a lot. So I’d see these girls on Howard Stern. And I was like, Oh, I’m going to go look up their porn. So I watched a lot of stuff like Tera Patrick. Jenna Jameson. But yeah, I watched a fair amount in my spare time.

Tommy Lee and Pamela Anderson was definitely my favorite. I mean, Paris Hilton was very hyped, but I’m going to be honest, it wasn’t anything special. And same with Kim Kardashian. But the Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee one was pretty, pretty wild. But yeah, I felt like that was a very voyeuristic thing. You’re stepping into someone’s private life. It’s very intimate. And whether it was it was stolen or not, you know, but yeah, I loved watching that kind of stuff. I felt like so naughty when I was a teenager.

I even heard [about] it from my parents, which is crazy. My dad was in the alcohol, the spirits industry for a long time. And so as like, Thank you, sometimes he would go to these liquor stores and check on his product over there. And they’d be like, here’s some tapes. Or DVDs or whatever it was, and so my parents were even talking about it. And I was like, Okay, I’ve got watch this.

Sex idols

Jenna Jameson, 100%. So I read her book How to Make Love Like a Porn Star. I thought she’s was so beautiful. Well, she’s still gorgeous. I just was like, oh my god like just her face, her hair, her body, her energy. And I was like, oh my god, like, she’s just so beautiful. And I don’t sugarcoat anything. I idolized porn stars. I idolized people in Playboy. I idolized people in Hustler. Like, I always thought that, and I still think women are beautiful creatures. So I was like, I want to look like that.

I always had crushes on celebrities growing up, but never like pornstars, which is weird. But women, like I always was like, I even thought to myself one time I was like, maybe I’m into women. And I’m like, no, I just like to look at women’s bodies and say like, that’s what I want. That’s what I want to look like.

Oh my god, Johnny Depp. I would still even Johnny Depp today, I would love love love — that’s like my number one hall pass. I love Tom Hardy. Jason Momoa, I think that’s how you pronounce his last name. Game of Thrones, when I saw him in Game of Thrones. I was like, oh, gorgeous. I like the really rugged looking guys. I know this sounds gross. But the Johnny Depp era where he looks like he didn’t take a shower for like a month with the long straggly hair. Chef’s kiss.

And Olivier Martinez. So the only movie I’ve ever seen him was Unfaithful with Diane Lane. And I was like, Oh my God, and he’s still very good looking.

Mickey Rourke was very good. Looking back in the day to just like, stuff like that. I’m trying to think what else though? I feel like there’s not a lot of good movie sex scenes. Like I feel like there’s more hot sex scenes in Game of Thrones like TV shows than there aren’t movies in my opinion.

So I am a huge Sopranos freak. Everybody knows this about me. I love, love, love Sopranos. I think I’ve seen every episode at least 100 times. I’ve got clothes I’ve got Funko Pops there in the corner. I’ve got Sopranos Monopoly. I’ve got cookbooks. I’ve got books that were written —  I forget now the other guy that did it — Michael Imperioli and I forget the other the guy that did it. Was like a book on the show and how it came about and behind the scenes. I love it. And I also love Sex in the City. Not so much the reboot or whatever the and very disappointed. I shed a tear that day for sure. Game of Thrones, I loved Mad Men. Oh, there’s another one. Jon Hamm is just gorgeous. And White Lotus. I can’t wait for the new season to come out.

I was pissed. I was so pissed. And I read that if you were watching that live on HBO that night, and then it went black. A lot of people thought there was something wrong with their satellite, or their cable, or whatever it was. And people were like, What the hell. I was really disappointed. But it’s funny. I watched TikTok. And so many people have theories as to what happened to him. And one that I saw that was interesting was that oh, now the guy that had a gambling problem in season two was the one that walked into the diner and ultimately probably killed him. And I thought that was really interesting. Oh, Davey Scatino was his name in the show. And I was like, Yeah, but like, after all that like someone as in like, as innocent as Davey Scatino is going to take them out. Like, I think that’s kind of silly.

Oh, definitely Game of Thrones. I would like to do a Stark Targaryen type of thing with the fur. And I think that’s been done before. I think it was called Game of Bones, if I’m not mistaken. I would love to do that. I mean, I guess Sopranos you could with like the Guido type of thing. But I don’t know.

The first time I ever heard that word, I was young. I must have been in elementary school. And I was like, what? And I never thought of it as a negative thing. I always thought it was so cool. And there were moms that were my friend’s moms or whatever that were very good looking. And I was like, Oh my God, I want to be a MILF. That’s so cool. So I don’t have the two by four stick figure body. So I am truly a mom. So I was like, Okay, I’m going to call myself a MILF. And that’s what I branded myself as and people, I think, just the big boobs, and you know, that kind of stuff, I think, all ties into the MILF type of role.

I definitely have embraced it. And so I’ve done one film in particular I did for Naughty America that was called My Friend’s Hot Mom. And I really went into that role. And like, it’s on their website right now, as advertised. There’s a banner that says milk and cookies because there’s a scene where I take chocolate chip cookies out of the oven, and I was like, Oh my God, that’s perfect. So yeah, I embrace it. I love it.

So in July, I reached out to Naughty America. And I got a response back from Shelby Black, who’s a well known director for Naughty America. And I was floored. I was at a wedding and Dana Point when I got that email, and I was like, No fucking way. Like, I couldn’t believe it.

And so I immediately jumped at the opportunity. And I loved it. And I wanted to make sure I had a good first impression. I showed up an hour early, which is kind of embarrassing, but you never know with the LA traffic we were discussing earlier. It’s so unpredictable. Like, if there’s a fatality on the freeway, you’re screwed. That main artery is cut off, and it’s very hard to get around that.

So I was like, okay, so I got there an hour early. And then I brought cookies. And I just made sure that I was prepared. And that, you know, everything went smoothly. And in I was very professional. And I wanted them to ask me back. And it worked out.

I brought cookies. And that’s like my trademark. Now everywhere I go, I have to bring cookies to set. So now I’ve brought cookies to every Naughty America that I’ve done. And I brought cookies to my Brazzers shoot and my Cherry Pimps shoot.

I’m not going to say the name [of the cookie brand] because I don’t want to get like in trouble. But there’s a local person around here that makes the best chocolate chip cookies you’ve ever had in your entire life. And so I ordered them in advance, I pick them up, and I bring them to set and they’re to die for.

I’m very motherly, loving, caring, and people love them.

So I think I’ve always had it since I was born. And it reared its ugly head after I had my first [child] and I was diagnosed with postpartum depression. It was really, really bad. It was a dark time for me. It sucked. Because I was like, this is supposed to be the happiest time of my life. I just had a kid. And I don’t feel happy, I feel down depressed, full of anxiety. I was constantly in a panic state. And partly that was because I wasn’t getting adequate sleep and wasn’t getting adequate rest. You know, I was I had my first right when I turned 21.

So all of a sudden went from being living at home with my parents to living in a house with my now husband. And I was just thrown into all this stuff. I had a C section in the middle of the night, and it was just a lot all at once. And my brain was like, whoa, time out. So I went through that for years and years and years until I finally got the correct help that I needed. I found a doctor who has now since retired. And I got the help I needed and was put on the right medication. And I always tell people, if you’re suffering, it’s always good to speak out. And I know a lot of people don’t like to speak out because it’s this taboo thing — I’m telling you, you’re not alone. And people need to know that that a lot of people suffer from it a lot. Because like I said earlier like, I’m one of those people I wear my emotions and my heart on my sleeve. But I would just tell people like, oh my god, I’m so depressed and this and that. And so many other women that were also moms or not moms would be like, I’ve been through the same thing, like, you know, it’s okay. So and then unfortunately, I had a family member who took their life in 2016 and it made me even think more about mental health and how I personally think that there needs to be more mental health outlets for people, like there needs to be more psychiatrists and psychologists and people to help. It’s just, I don’t know, it’s crazy to me how many people I hear of that they just they don’t know where to get help. They don’t know who to turn to. And I wish that there was more outlets for people like that.

I think for me, personally, my family does not know that I do this. The only people that know that I do this is my husband and a couple friends. And that’s it. So I have this part of me that loves to tell everybody everything — I can’t. And so it to me, it’s like holding in poison. And sometimes I get overwhelmed and upset and just, yeah, it’s not good.

So I tell people, have someone that you can tell something to. So I’m always calling my friend up like, this happened to me, or this happened to me. And so it’s a good — she’s like my therapist. But yeah, a lot of people think porn stars are these immoral, dirty, horrible human beings. And that can’t be further from the truth. Like everybody that I’ve worked with us in this industry so far, anybody that I’ve come across in this industry has been so sweet, and so loving, and so kind, and I wish more people would take a chance and just realize that we’re just like everybody else. We pee the same. We bleed the same. You know, it’s like, you know, this is just our job. And I always tell people, it’s people think everything is like Boogie Nights. And that’s so not what it’s like. So, you know, we’re, you know, we stay sober and professional. And so, yeah.

No professional set would let that fly [like in Boogie Nights]. You can’t show up to set hammered. You can’t bring drugs to set. You can’t do any of that stuff. And I don’t know why you would want to show up to set hammered anyway, because then you can’t perform well. But yeah, these companies now take every possible step to ensure that when you’re performing that it’s a sober, safe environment.

Everybody’s in the same boat. And everybody has very similar stories. And, you know, everybody’s just so sweet and professional, and boundaries are always discussed. So there’s not ever uncomfortable moments where you’re like, Oh, I didn’t want you to do that, or anything like that. Everything is discussed, which is great, — Naughty America, Brazzers, everybody that I’ve worked with so far is like, discuss your boundaries, and it has to be on camera. So yeah, I just everybody’s just so sweet. And like the Brazzers shoot I did. it was the day of the “hurricane” here. And I say that in quotations because it was not a hurricane at all. It was pretty pathetic. They canceled school for all the kids. So a lot of people that had kids showed up to set and we’re like, Shit, I had to find childcare this morning. Like it was ridiculous. So but it was a great laugh and everybody thought it was just funny that they took those steps and it literally did not rain at all that day. It was stupid.

We thought it was gonna rain like 12 inches or like whatever it was because, I mean, we’ve had that here. Last year there was one night here at my house, we got 12 inches of rain. We thought we were going to like float away. We were like, What is going on? And then the hurricane came around and it was like not even a quarter inch rain. I don’t even think it was that. It was so silly. And I’m like, Oh my God, how stupid.

So Keiran Lee was the director of the Brazzers shoot I did. So I did a shoot with Manuel Ferrara and Sinatra Monroe. And so I got the call sheet that it was going to be with him. And I was like, Oh, shit. So then I told my husband and my husband told his friend, who’s like a huge porn freak. And he was like, Oh, my God, like, this is big time. So of course, I was very nervous. But again, these guys — when I met Manuel, well, he’s the nicest guy. He’s so professional. And just everything was organic, and meshed well, and I had a great time. I think I was on set with them for I think it was like from eight or nine in the morning till six o’clock at night. It was a big ad scene for Brazzers and like the time just flew by, like I had so much fun. So yeah.

I was the newly married MILF that had a husband that was not interested in me sexually. He was more interested in watching a movie, and the stepdaughter was upstairs and she came downstairs and I took an interest to her, she took an interest in me. And then the delivery guy was Manuel Ferrara. So I had ordered a dildo online, and he delivered it. And then the stepdaughter, which is Sinatra Monroe and him went upstairs, they started doing stuff and then I took the dildo out, and surprised them. And so it was a great time.

My first time and it was so embarrassing, and everybody calls me Marlon Brando now on set on Naughty America, because I had a lot of lines my first scene ever. It was called Dirty Wives Club with Will Pounder, and they gave me all these lines. And I’m like, Oh, shit. And I kept messing up because I was super nervous. And I was like, getting frustrated. And like Shelby Black was like, just let it flow. Like, you don’t have to say everything like word for word. So I kind of switched some things up, and they started calling me like Marlon Brando. But there was like one scene where I had to put I had to tape the lines to the window where no one can see it. So I could look. Because it was like, it was a lot of lines. So and it’s been like that with pretty much every pro scene I’ve done.

I love Casino. I love Godfather one and two. I am very Sicilian. So that kind of runs in my blood. Any kind of mob movie I love. Goodfellas. I even love Once Ppon a Time in America, which is not about the Italian Mob, but the Jewish mob. I love that movie. I love Shawshank Redemption. I love Papillon, the original Papillon, not the remake. And then I love Ooh, I love everything. I love Forrest Gump. I think Forrest Gump is a great movie. I love the Revenant with Leonardo DiCaprio. Very random. Oh, I love Dances with Wolves, too.

So I listen to Joe Rogan. I’ll flip through, though because not everybody he has on I’m familiar with. But when he has on Joey Diaz, I listen a lot. Let’s see. Tom Segura. There’s one episode in particular, I laughed my ass off. It was episode 1000. It was Tom Segura and Joey Diaz. And I thought it was the funniest thing. I listened to the Girls Next Level podcast, which is about Holly Madison and Bridget Marquardt, who were girlfriends of Hugh Hefner, and I was the Big Girls Next Door fan when I was in high school. So I was like, Oh, that’s really cool. And then I occasionally listened to Call Her Daddy. But yeah, those are Joe Rogan. And girls next level for sure are my two.

Yes, especially right now with the holidays [interview recorded December 2023]. Because I got be a mom, I got be a wife. And then I got make to sure that my only fans is taken care of, I got to make sure that I am talking to my publicist, I got to make sure that you know, I keep up with social media and all that kind of stuff. And sometimes it gets a little overwhelming. Especially like I said, like right now, during the holidays, like, all I’m doing right now is shopping and wrapping gifts. And my husband has no idea what that entails. Like, he thinks that I snap my fingers and everything’s wrapped. And I’m like, No, that’s not how it works. Like I’m going on day 11 now of consistently wrapping presents every single day, and I’m not even halfway through.

So my husband and my kids and I, we love to go look at Christmas lights. And I have a Jeep, so we take the doors and the top off the jeep. And then we wrap it everything in Christmas lights, and we plug it into a little thing on the — I don’t know what it is. I’m not technical like that. But then we go look at Christmas lights. But we have to bundle up. We just did it like a week ago and we froze our asses off and we had like, beanies on and jackets and blankets and we still froze, but it’s so much fun.

So there’s a few cons. So it’s very expensive to live in LA, anywhere near LA, LA County. It’s very, very expensive. Gas is expensive. Thank God I have an electric car. So that’s out the window. Just property taxes. Everything around here is it’s out of control. And honestly, I don’t know how some people do it. I really am like, Are you a drug dealer? Like what are you doing?  It’s absolutely insane.

And then of course, the traffic is horrible. And I’ve had situations, I have my cosmetology license. And when I was going to beauty school, when I was 18, I would have to go down to Burbank. And if there was an accident on the freeway, and they shut down the freeway, you can’t get down there. Like you could maybe take a side road. But once an artery, like a main artery is cut off, it’s horrible. And there’s been like what’s called Carmageddon, where, at one point, the 405 freeway was closed down for bridge construction. And it was horrible. So that’s not fun.

But the pros to living here is the weather, for the most part is great. And there’s a lot that you can see and do. So you can one day be at the beach and the next day be in the mountains and snowboarding and skiing. There’s a lot of hiking. I mean, this is a huge state. So there’s a lot to do and a lot to see. And then of course there’s Disneyland and all that kind of stuff, which I love.