In Defense of Lube!

Lube gets a bad wrap and we are here to set the record straight! Too often I hear women running around talking about their “wet ass pussy” like it’s water dripping from a faucet, but if we’re being honest with ourselves ladies we know that shit doesn’t always work like that. And if you’re lucky enough to have one of those long intimate sessions with a partner who can last, you can bet your next paycheck you’re going to need some extra lubricant, and that’s where we come into play. Today, we’re defending lubes across the globe and breaking down the truth behind the beauty and necessity that they bring to the the sex game.

First things first, using lubricants does not mean that your vagina is dry. Please get that out of your head! You shouldn’t be afraid of being labeled grandma pussy because you have a tube of Obsess Me or Pussy Juice on your nightstand. Lubricants can be used at anytime by anyone and there are so many different types that it makes it damn near universal. Lets say you’re getting it on with a new partner and you guys want to use a condom. Adding lube to the mix reduces friction and as a result can help prevent rips and tears in your protection. Or, perhaps you’re engaging in anal sex and want to ease some of the initial pain that’s often associated so you apply a little anal lube as reinforcement for what your body naturally does, just not enough back there. It’s performing a super important task while staying out of the way so you can still enjoy what you came there to do!

Lube doesn’t have to play a background role though, and that’s one of the reasons I love the flavored ones so much! If you want to spice things up but don’t feel like breaking out the whips and chains flavored lube is an excellent way to go. As with anything, you have to make sure you’re getting what’s right for your body and since it’s going to be touching a lot of intimate places you definitely want to know what’s in it, but once you have that info down, picking out the right one will be a breeze and add a little something extra to your good time. There’s nothing like sucking a dick that tastes like your favorite cherry candy, or licking on nipples with blueberry dripping from them. It may seem small and simple, but sometimes that’s all it takes to get the ball rolling and you might realize you like adding a little candy flavor to your favorite body parts. There are also lubes that create warm and tingly sensations upon interaction if you’re feeling extra spicy! These can be great for placing on the tip of your clit if you like direct stimulation or even around the shaft of a penis during a handjob.

Of course, if you are a little dry down there lube can be your best friend. There’s no need for shame or frustration, especially when all you’re trying to do is prevent a fire from breaking out. Hormonal changes are constantly happening and dryness is a common side effect, but not only down there. You can also experience dry mouth, making those flavor lubes ideal, and even dry hands and feet, turning blow and handjobs into your worst nightmare. Instead of shying away from something that can help, we should all be running towards lubes, giving them warm hugs, and stocking up whenever we can. It’s only a matter of time before you’re going to want or need to use one, so jump on the wagon now and play around with one of the greatest and easiest enhancements you’ll ever bring into your sex life. And do me a favor, the next time you see a bottle of lube sitting in your sex buddy’s room, don’t judge or get sad or run up to them crying and apologizing for their condition. Instead pop the top off that bad boy, grab a finger full, grease up, and partake in the pure delight that comes along with slipping and sliding your way into orgasm land!

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