AE Sex Spotlight: Voyeurism
We are in a world where we get watched over and over, a world changed by social media and “oneupmanship” for attention recording dance moves or crazy stunts. How about sex acts? Imagine a naughty app that would allow you to create hot snips of you and your lover having sex! That would be and extreme trend of voyeurism but it would be damn cool and an app I would enjoy. We are all voyeurs of some sort, just the act of watching porn makes you a voyeur. In the old days there was the horny guy who was a “peeping tom” as he hid in the bushes to get a view of his high school crush or the sexy MILF next door. The thrill of the peep would arouse them enough to even masturbate but that type of a voyeur is dangerous and can lead to a destructive disorder and trouble with the law. It makes for good old movies though. As with all fetishes we only encourage a fetish that is mutually agreed upon where both parties know the boundaries.
Another form of voyeurism is the thrill of being watched. Whether it is being watched as you masturbate or dance in an erotic fashion, provide a sultry strip show. If you are being watched it is a form of voyeurism. Even when having sex and screaming loudly for other, possibly neighbors or family to overhear could be considered a form of voyeurism as you are getting satisfaction in the same type of way. The arousal comes from being heard or observed during sexual activity. Often, romantic couples will make voyeurism a part of their sex life by allowing the partner to invite another to have sex with them under the rule of the other partner being able to watch. In that sense maybe the turn on is by having sex with another partner while your partner gets off simply by watching. This storyline is very popular in porn movies as cuckholding. Cuckholding is defined as the enjoyment of watching your partner have sex with someone else.
There are so many exciting avenues of sex that can really ratch up the excitement and give the ultimate experience and the ultimate orgasm. Most people seem to have tried having risky sex in a semi public place or a place where they could be caught. That is almost a form of voyeurism and provides a similar stimulation. If you want to give this a try start by asking your partner to masturbate in front of you, or you masturbate in front of them to see what you prefer. Talk about it after and use open communication to see what steps you may want to try. Another great way to get started is by watching voyeurism porn and here are some great choices.
