‘Pornstar Brandi Love Discusses Swinging’ (VIDEO)
Thinking swinging might be the right path to revitalize your relationship? Brandi Love and husband, Chris, found themselves entering into the wild and wonderful world of swingers after they’d been married for a time. In this interview clip, Love discusses her perspective on the swinging subculture.
Transcript:
Again, I’ve got to tell you — communication. I know people, the guy will say, “How did I get my wife to [swing]?” You don’t. You don’t “get” your wife to do anything. This is something that you want to do together, preferably together. I know with [husband] Chris and I, it was mutual, odd situation. It was brought in front of us. We both went, “Hmmm!” We’d been married a few years. We’re both pretty wild, and we thought, “Is this a real thing?” That’s how naive we were. “People what? People do that?” And of all the people — and I talk about this on my website — of all the people who “mentored” us, if you will, it was a pastor and his wife. No joke! Which was super intriguing growing up Catholic and Presbyterian. We were both like, “How do you make that work? I don’t get it.” And they did. They explained it both from the civilian side, if you will, [and] the Biblical side. We just went, “Okay, we’re going to take all that information and digest it.” And we woke up the next day like “Bing! The world’s our oyster. Let’s go play!”
So, for us, it’s absolutely 100% — I wouldn’t say “rules” but knowing your limits. And baby steps, baby steps together. There’s always a “if we’re done, we’re done.” You walk out. And I don’t think it’s for everybody. Monogamy’s beautiful. And [for] some couples, it’s phenomenal, and can work, but I think for the majority, that’s not the case. And instead of having affairs and cheating and deception and all that kind of shit, you can actually create a stronger bond in a really sexy part of your relationship by sharing your bedroom. Again, just like I don’t suggest that being a pornstar is for everybody, swinging is not for everybody. But there are ways to play with both ideas, without actually jumping full force, so it’s just keeping an open mind and having fun. My idea of fun might be different than others, but it works for me.
