Exclusive: Anal Sex Tips with AJ Applegate

Anal Sex: it’s still very much taboo.  Everyone has different likes and dislikes, so whether you love it or hate it, you are not alone.  We wanted to get tips on how to make this oh so forbidden sex act as pleasurable as possible.  So we went straight to the source – AJ Applegate – who boasts one of the biggest and best asses in porn today.  Without further ado, read on for tips and tricks from the booty queen herself.

For anal virgins, what advice would you give them?

I find that the anal kit is the best way to start training your ass. You start with the smallest butt plug, and then gradually go bigger. After doing that for a week I find glass toys are the best way to start stretching your booty hole deep. Always make sure your relaxed when stretching or you might tear. I find that if you clean out too much also, that can put strain on your booty hole too. Everyone is diff though, you just have to figure out what works for you.

What’s the best position for an anal orgasm?

I like missionary with my legs up in the air. That position always make me squirt.

How much lube? And best type of lube for anal?
You don’t need to go too crazy with the amount of lube you use. I love gun oil. It never dries out and it always helps stretch me out really good. I wouldn’t suggest using water base. It gets absorbed into your body very quickly, so you dry out quicker which might cause a tear or a sore booty hole.

Any objects that are strictly off limits during anal play?
I wouldn’t suggest using any plastic objects. The plastic can start peeling and can scratch the inside of your booty hole. I don’t like fingers bc yours or someone else’s nail could scratch you, but it all depends on your comfort zone.

Why do you think men are so obsessed with anal sex these days?
I think men obsess over anal bc it’s like a forbidden hole and in someone ways anal sex is very dirty and kinky.

What positions work best for anal?
To warm up I love spoon. It’s the most relaxing. If you like it deep doggy and missionary are great. If your more dominant and like to be in control like myself, cowgirl is great for that.

Do you enjoy anal just as much off camera as on camera?
Yes, I do 🙂 I make sure to have anal sex at home to keep my booty hole nice and warmed up.

Many women say that their anal orgasms are even more intense than their vaginal and clitoral orgasms. Do you also find this to be true?
I have a very sensitive clit, so my clitoral orgasms are really really intense. I wouldn’t be able to say which is more intense, they’re very different orgasms.

What approach should be taken by guys who are trying to convince their partners to give anal a try for the first time?
I would suggest they have their partner try stretching out first by themselves until they feel comfortable enough. Make sure to take your time and don’t force it in. Also, use a vibrator on your partner that always helps.

First on-camera anal” scenes have become almost part of the porn rite of passage for most performers. What’s your take on that?
I did my first anal on camera and I think that’s a good decision to make. Your going to get a guy that prob knows what he’s doing so its going to go very well and feel great.

As anal increasingly becomes part of the mainstream of sexual behavior, do you think it’ll lose a bit of its mystique as the excitement of its “forbidden” allure wears off?
No I don’t think anal will ever lose its excitement. That’s like saying sex in itself will lose its excitement.

AJ Applegate xoxo